This heaviness that has returned to my body is not from my own rape this time. It is from my place in the collective. This grieving that I'm feeling is not for my own loss, but for what we have lost as women - in innocence, in trust, in potential, in power. For what men have lost by not experiencing the profound beauty of an unguarded woman who feels safe and expressed in her own body. For the reactivated trauma we all keep perpetuating, generation after generation.
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Divide-and-conquer is the oldest strategy in the book of empire. But does division always have to be divisive? Or is there a way to divide that can strengthen and ultimately, include?
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Our leadership. Our vulnerability. Our tenderness. Our power. Our sensual and sexual expression. Even the dance with our masculine selves – all depends on having a healthy, intact, integrated and fully expressed relationship with our sacred feminine selves.
It’s so tempting to feel that your life will improve as soon as your partner or family members change, or when you have a bigger house or get a better job. In both my workshops and my private coaching program, I’ve witnessed the exact opposite. People find happiness, satisfaction, fulfillment, warmth, love, abundance, support — in every area of their lives — as soon as they fortify their relationship with themselves.
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I want you to know that underneath the political rhetoric, the religious terror, the impossible double standards, the cruel repression, the rape culture, the entitlement, the sheer stupidity of misogyny…this power we hold is at the heart of it all.
It is exactly what the world fears about us. It is, even, what we fear about ourselves.
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It is true. And it is all that is left to do
and say and show in every moment
between now and eternity
that love really is all.
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"I love you man, but I don't want you to play guitar at my funeral. Nothing personal. It's just becoming a cliche."
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